On a short, funny note. My mom wanted to have 9 boys for a baseball team. She had 3 girls and struck out! HAHA That's the joke I made up... and I love it!
So...for those who find themselves struggling within the spiritual dating dimension in the area of knowing how to love... know that it is okay to love somebody like a brother, first.
Easier said than done, I know.
In fact, usually saying "I love you like a brother," within society is a big fat breakup line or some turn down warning signal. Fear not, loving someone like family is not some cardinal 'no-no."
It starts to make sense, I promise.
What I learned in a short period of time, is that no matter what, the guy you eventually spend the rest of your life with should know how to treat you. They ought to treat you right. They should treat you like they would treat their sister if they have one or if they had one...depending on the sibling status.
Loving someone like a brother, or sister if you are a dude, relieves any pressure on your emotional status. When you love a sibling, you love unconditionally, and it's mutual.
I was about to say you don't have misunderstandings... but I am only just at the beginning.
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